Kids - They're Not Going to Outlive Their Parents

After attending a fitness conference in Orlando, Florida, I keep realizing how much I am still learning. What an exciting weekend it was! Yet, after all the workshops that I attended, something one of the presenters said really resonated in my head. I wondered if it was true because it gave me some really torn feelings. He said,

"Our current generation of kids may be the first to not outlive their parents."

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The reason I was torn with this statement was because on one hand, I thought, what a way to capitalize on new fitness programs for children. On the other hand though, I thought, has it really become so bad we now have to send them to professionals to make sure they are moving and eating right? I mean, growing up, kids were playing football, stick ball, jump rope, etc. on my block every day. You name it, it was being done. On many occasions my parents would be furious if I were to stay outside too long playing with my other friends. Yet everyday, it was what I was looking forward to do as soon as I got home from school and finished my homework. And then the summers were even better because we were out all day! As far as food was concerned, if I did eat fast food, it was only on the weekends. During the week I would eat whatever my mom prepared for breakfast and dinner and whatever school had for lunch. A lot of times I was eating as fast as possible so that I can meet friends, go to recess, or play outside.

So I did some further research into that statement and here is what I found:

31.9% of children and adolescents are overweight 16.3% of children and adolescents are obese Type 2 Diabetes has increased 10 fold in the past twenty years Over 8 million children have asthma, up 232% in the last forty years Cancer kills more kids than any other disease

Researchers believe that poor eating habits and a sedentary lifestyle are responsible for many of these issues. After finding all this out I am even more driven to fight the effects of poor eating habits and a sedentary lifestyle, not just in adults but in children too!

Here are two top tips that you and your family can use right now to get started on the path to a healthy and fit lifestyle:

Try to get in at least 20-30 minutes of activity per day as a family. Limit the amount of sugars and processed foods you and your family are taking in each day.

Remember that above all... Keep it fun!

Kids - They're Not Going to Outlive Their Parents

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School Children With Gay and Lesbian Parents

There are many lesbian and gay parents nowadays in different parts of the world and they will surely increase in the future. This type of family should not be considered a problem in a society because gay and lesbian people are just like any other individuals, wanting to be a parent and having a child of their own.

School Children with Gay and Lesbian Parents

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Gay and lesbian parents have the right to have a child to raise and look after and care for. However, the issue here is about the child in school. What will happen when the classmates of the child learn that the child has a gay or lesbian parent? Would the child encounter any issues when he or she reaches his or her adolescent age? How does the teacher in the classroom support the students?

Studies show that children raised in heterosexual families are no different than children raised by a gay or lesbian parent. In fact, children that are being raised by gay or lesbian parents tend to be warm, caring, nurturing and show empathy to others because of the attitudes the parents show to their children. However, there are concerns that accompany it.

Because as the child grows up, according to Erick Erikson's Psychosocial Development model, there may be conflict in Identity vs. Role Confusion at the adolescence stage. Kids tend to be confused of what their true identity is. Moreover, these children may also have difficulty in terms of their social relationship because they might be teased and humiliated by their classmates and friends which will serve as a stigma to them.

What should Gay and Lesbian Parents do?

In order to avoid this from happening, gay or lesbian parents should talk to their children about their family while the children are still young. Also, parents must go to the school where their children attend in order to discuss the status of their family and to know what stand the school would take about their family. Most of all, the parents must show their children a positive attitude toward the opposite sex so that the child will not be confused when gender identity occurs in adolescence.

Children who are brought up correctly with a perfect balance of nature and nurture can be excellent citizens regardless of sexual orientation of the parents.

Read more about Gay and Lesbian Families [http://drpfconsults.com/category/gay-and-lesbian-families/].

School Children With Gay and Lesbian Parents

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